OK, here it is. My compiled post on the differences between the three fundamental types of females we can run into in the club.
The terms hold no judgement to me. I have a strong dislike for political correctness so I have retained the original terminology, both as a tribute to the greats who coined them (I didn't) and also because I like the fact that Andro-Feminists choke on them so easily, lol.
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Freaks.
They can be deceptively tricky to spot if you don't know what to look for.
I'm amazed at the number of posts here about a girl with clear-cut freak tendencies doing in some poor chumps head having him thinking about all the cute GF/BF stuff they're going to be doing in the future (right after he figures out how to fuck her...)
Here's MY observations as well as a few rules of thumb I've picked up reading on mASF:
-Hats. Freaks love wearing them in-doors and they look so sexy doing it (credit: Lifeguard)
-Tattoos and piercings. The more the freakier.
-Smoker. * couch-couch *
-Overtly sexy clothes. Freaks seem to have a knack for finding outfits that are both a few sizes too small and leave as little to your imagination as possible. (BTW, is every woman in Brazil a freak or what?)
-Stilettos. Ouch. A personal must for me if I'm taking a girl home, but no self-respecting freak would be caught dead going out in a boring pair of flat shoes.
-Go-go dancing. Freaks will ALWAYS take up the spot in the club where the largest number of salivating chodes can see them dance.
-Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde syndrome. A freak will often switch between grinding on a random guy only to ferociously bitch-slap him 2 minutes later for grabbing her ass.
-Two-toned hair. You know, black hair with blonde streaks or vice versa. ALWAYS a clear freak-indicator. (PlayerSupreme says many hair-dressers are freaks... cuts back on the expenses towards new hair styles and dye, I guess.)
-Big hoop ear-rings. Biiiiig freak warning lamp.
-Heavy alcohol/drug abuse is very common with freaks. Sometimes they emit a weird "emotional black hole"-type of energy when under the influence».
-Freaks seem to have problems holding on to female friends for very long.. the hard-core clubber freaks I personally know of almost always shows up every weekend with a different girl-friend in tow, and when asked what happened to so-and-so they reply with: "Yeah, she's a total slut, we hate her, and she's such a loser, yada-yada-yada.."
-Orbiters. Freaks collect them like filatelists collects stamps. (Don't be one!)
-About half of the women in the bars or clubs are freaks (credit: Franco)
DO's and DON'Ts around freaks:
-DO ignore them initially.
-DO make aggressive eye contact (think stare-down before a boxing match)
-DO command them around/push or shove them out of your way.
-DO go into sexual state directed at another HB NEXT to the freak (credit: ijjjji)
-DON'T stare at their sexual display in the club. Never look directly at a freak, instead look through her like SHBs do when you try to get eye contact with them.
-DON'T do anything that can be interpreted as "nice". If a freak demands a favour from you, feel free to use my stock answer: "Get it yourself, I'm not your fuckin' prison bitch."
-DON'T react to any jealousy plotlines or attempts to make you compete for the freak. Just walk away without a word and open another HB in full sight of the freak. She'll either get right back on your lap or blow up in a psycotic display of sluttiness... either way the night's entertainment is secured, lol!
The Freak-test:
If you treat her nice she responds by giving you shit, if you treat her like shit she responds with being nice (credit: Kwagmyre).
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Ho's.
I must admit I always steer the fuck clear of ho's except to fuck a little with them when they try to hustle me for drinks...
But I do have an amazingly hot pivot with clear-cut ho traits, so I frequently pimp her out when we're rolling together. The bulk of the following observations are based on my dealings with her as well as the ho's I've come across in the clubs:
-Ho's dress for the symps. Meaning they'll look sexy but as opposed to the freak a ho will try to attract a "provider" rather than a "lover" so their outfits are less slutty and more classy.
-Bling! Never seen a ho without expensive jewelry. Bracelets and pendants, ear-rings and chunky stones on the finger are the order of the day. ("Gifts" from admirers, no doubt!)
-"Buy me a drink!" If you hear that line coming out of the mouth of a girl you met less than a minute ago, she's a ho.
-"Let me buy you a drink!" If you hear that line coming out of the mouth of a girl you met less than a minute ago she's a REALLY, REALLY GOOD ho. Watch out!
-Ho's never leave the bar for long. You'll find your garden variety ho hanging out in close vicinity to the bar at all times as this is prime fishing waters for generous chumps hoping to score with the sexy ladies that just happens to be located conveniently near the 300$ champagne, lol.
-Ho's are DIRECT. Their pussy is the tool of their trade and time is money. The instant a ho realize you can't be chumped, you're DUMPED. Ho's are also very vulnerable to game as they themselves are never gamed; they do all the gaming normally. (credit: jetsetjim).
-Ho's are NOT gonna allow you to game them when they're working, so find out when they're on their own time. This is when they're open to being gamed (credit: Lunarfault).
DO's and DON'Ts around ho's:
-DO make her understand you're a High Value Male whose value is so much higher than hers that she should be thankful you'll even spend time chatting with her (credit. jetsetjim).
-DO cultivate an "insider-mentality" with ho's as in "Yeah, I know what's up with you.. I'm not buying, but I'll help you land a symp to skin so we can split the loot.." Then befriend her by making fun of the dudes buying you two free drinks. (Us vs. Them bubble).
-DON'T buy a ho a drink!!! (Duh.) And don't do any favours, demand favours from her instead. If she's asking for a light, make her pass you a coaster for your drink or a cigarette from her pack, etc. Basic compliance.
-The Ho litmus-test: Tell her you just lost your job and that you're living on a buddy's couch for a few months until you get back on your feet and watch the ho do an instant back-turn only to never acknowledge your existence again.
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Good Girls.
Lets start with the master himself, PlayerSupreme, and his definition:
"The good girl. This is the type of B*tch whom a N*gga wants to marry or settle down with. She is the nice one who does everything for her man. She comes from her heart. Everything that she does is based around how in love with you that she is."
And the brilliant mind of Franco spawned this gem in a reply to a post of mine on my relationship with a GG:
"A Good Girl can be as ruthless as a Freak or a Ho in shit testing but the purpose of her shit testing is different.
Good Girls test men for safety, there where Freaks test to gain validation and sex and Ho´s to make money and gain material possessions.
Good Girl is not the same like "kind" or "sweet" or "submissive".
For sure: the same thing which makes girls horny makes also them unsecure.
A Good Girl at this point will shit test you to check is she safe.
Many Good Girls damage themselves when they shit test a strong guy for safety but when unexperienced they miscalibrate and start to do shit like putting him to compete with other guys.
You can´t punish that in the same way you would punish a Ho or a Freak for the same behavior because the motivation for doing that to you is different.
I do not mean be a nice guy, I mean calibrate."
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So far, so good, girl.. (shit, couldn't help myself!)
Here are my observations from the field... I have picked up a sizeable amount of GGs and these sweeping generalizations apply to most of them, IME.
-A GG will usually be out in the club with at least one girlfriend, often she'll be part of a larger group. Going lone wolf seems extremely rare.
-A GG will insist on paying for her own drinks. A useful little screening routine I run early on in set is to bring up the subject of men paying girls for their time with drinks and how sad and lame that is. The GG will usually go on a rant about how she ALWAYS pays her own way, "I make my own money and I'm an independent girl, no man is paying for me!"... classic good girl.
-The GG will NOT be down for a bout of slobbery making out on the dance floor in front of all of her friends, unlike the freak. The GG needs privacy and comfort away from prying eyes for the kiss to happen. Same goes for hard-core grinding. If the girl is riding your dick after 30 secs. she NOT a GG.
-A GG dresses somewhat more conservative when going out... sure, she may show a bit of cleavage or wear a miniskirt but her overall appearance is more "subdued" than that of the highly sexualized freak (who dress for attention) or the ho (who dress sexy for the suckers, lol). Likewise, the GG will wear stillettos if it's in style only (so there's no GGs in the club in clear plastic heels!)
-The GG will respond favourably to requests for compliance when she trusts you. Asking her to get you something or pay for you (on day2s) makes her feel needed and gives her a way to show her love. This last point is probably the single most important one to remember when dealing with GGs.
-GGs have little to no game. They're the female equivalent of the AFC. They're highly prone to develop oneitis (or Magic relationship Syndrome, as this phenomenon has recently been idenfied by Tubarao as!).
-GGs have pride, they care what others think of them, unlike ho's and freaks (credit: jetsetjim).
DO's and DON'Ts around Good Girls:
-DO tone down the high octane type game... be genuine and laid back, don't fry a GGs circuits with too much Cocky/Funny or push-pull.
-DO realise you run the very real risk of making this GG fall head over heels in love with you.. for many reasons this can be problematic if you're only looking to get it wet once. Freaks were BORN to fuck, go for the ONS with one of those (and if you can't, develop the skills to do so!)
-DON'T skip rapport and comfort with a GG. Be OK with the fact she may need to see you for both a day3 or a day4 before she's ready for the full close. Have FBs you can go see after these day2s with GGs that aren't quite there yet..
-DON'T forget that a GG will have a slutty, sexy side to her, she just needs time and comfort to allow herself to express this. Help her out patiently by leading.. ("Who's your daddy?").
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This is it.
Read and re-read until the differences between the three female archetypes are so ingrained in your psyche that you can identify a woman correctly within seconds when in field.
My club game sky-rocketed after I internalised this knowledge. I now rarely mis-calibrate to a girl after having labeled her according to this model.
Sure, most chicks are 80% Freak and 20 % GG (or more likely 100% freak with a thin veneer of good girl smeared over), or 80% GG and 20% Ho, but when you start to get good at reading the signs, FIELD EXPERIENCE will tell you how to play any particular female right.
Dog.
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